As we roll into summer, my family starts to put BBQs and swim parties on our calendar, which means we’re about to have a lot of people over! I’ve always been very sensitive to smells, yet hate using chemical-laden masking agents to hide them. I do enjoy essential oils, flowers and natural candles as a way to add scent to the air. However, these fragrances can’t mask smells or clean the source of stinky stuff that gets embedded in my drains, flooring, and furniture.

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When I was very young, I would give my Dad beer for Father’s Day. My Mom would buy the generic cans with the blue stripe around it and I would then decorate it with bows and pictures of cats. (more…)

I hijacked my own Mother’s Day this year. I love sleeping in and having breakfast in bed and all, but traipsing around a farm on a Sunday morning sounded so much more fun! Forcing my sleepy family to get up, get dressed and get on the road, we took the one hour drive out to Keys Creek Lavender Farm in Valley Center, California.

This fragrant oasis is the only USDA-certified organic lavender farm. The farm previously known as The Lavender Fields, has more than a dozen varieties of lavender on eight-and-a-half acres of land.

The Keys Creek Lavender Farm has been my very own elusive mystical unicorn. I hear about it, I want to see one, but yet every time I made an effort to go – poof, the opportunity disappeared! The Farm is only open to the public in the months of May and June, and weekend tours often sell out in advance. In other words, plan your trip — if you think you can get a glimpse of this magical place on a whim, it’s just not going to happen. I planned and bought my Mother’s Day tickets months in advance, so I finally had set plans. If you’re a good planner as well, they also host English High Teas, tours, healing and yoga retreats, numerous classes and workshops, private events and parties, and getaways.

After we arrived at the farm, we were met by our lovely tour guide, Sarah Jones. Sarah has a lovely British accent and says things like, “Watch out here – it’s a bit slippy!” And, “These plants can be a bit persnickety.” Needless to say my tea-drinking, everything-British-loving daughter was floating around on cloud nine. Also floating around were about a billion busy bees. The bees were buzzing around in a pollen gathering frenzy on the fragrant lavender plants warming in the sun. Meanwhile my husband appeared panicked, and his eyes were darting around as if he were looking for stray bullets. He’s allergic to bees — oh boy, did I feel bad. With no epi-pen on hand, or even an anti-histamine, my husband really stepped up and bravely marched through the buzzing acres like a good ‘Mother’s Day’ sport. Note: Honey bees like these are NOT interested in you. Do not go into the bushes, swat at them, or make sudden moves if one lands on you and you’ll BEE just fine. 🙂

Happy 🐝’s on lavender​. #lavender #farm #flowers #mothersday #forgetbrunch #bees

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We learned about different varieties of lavender, which ones have more oil and even saw an oil distillery. It basically looks like a moonshine set-up, but for making glorious golden lavender oil instead. I believe it takes 250 pounds of lavender to make one large bottle. Lavender takes a lot of work, but the labor of love is evident throughout the farm.

After the tour, guests stopped at the adorable tea house to purchase lavender based foods – teas, lemonade, scones and cookies.  The gift shop a bit further down the path offered lotions, soaps, dried satchels of lavender, scone mix, candles and more. Needless to say, the store smelled amazing.

Lavender has many healing properties (see below), but most notably it has a calming effect. It’s great in cleaning and beauty products, and my personal favorite use is in a diffuser.

If you’re headed out for a visit, grab a lavender treat from the farm, but then stop for lunch at the Yellow Deli. You will most likely pass it on the way in, but this farm to table deli offers a an organic food menu and they have a lovely terrace in the shade to dine at.  The food from the Yellow Deli is actually grown at the farm that neighbors the Lavender farm!

This is a great San Diego day trip, but PLAN PLAN PLAN. It’s beyond worth it!

For more information, go here – https://www.kclfarm.com/

Today I picked up some gingko nuts and a bitter melon at the Korean Zion market. I have no idea how to prepare either, but they look fun and I love playing with my food.

The gingko nuts are encased in a light cream colored shell and packaged in a mesh bag. I also scored some fat glossy chestnuts and thankfully, I do know how to roast those. I’m very excited about the chestnuts because last year I bought some from a local big box store and they were green and moldy inside when I opened them. It was insult to injury as I paid an arm and a leg for them! I was so upset, I actually returned the moldy nuts to the store and the manager told me that he thought they were for decoration only. What? Ugh. Insert biggest eye roll HERE.

I took out my trusty nut cracker and cracked open the delicate gingko shell. The nut inside was soft golden green color. It had a blue cheese aroma and squished easily between my fingers.
I tasted it and it did have a creamy cheese texture and taste. Cool! I could spread this on crackers! As I continued to taste, there was an annoying little voice in the back of my mind. Perhaps I should have read up on this newbie to make sure I was ‘doing it’ right? Maybe there was some sort of preparation?

Details and instructions have never actually been my thing, but perhaps I should have cooked this nut? Panicked, I ran to the computer and to the ‘Goog’. Instant searches revealed my worst fear. I should NOT have eaten the raw nuts. The nuts should be cooked for at LEAST ten minutes in boiling water before being added to soups like congee or stir-fry. These instructions were followed by a dire warning — not only is the raw nut toxic (same compound that is in poison ivy), but an adult should not consume more than eight cooked nuts a day. What? I don’t buy foods with LIMITS! Oh shoot, I have been poisoned. I ate the damn raw nut because it came in a cute mesh bag….

I took the bag of poison nuts and chucked in the trash. Sorry Gingko! So promising and yet so risky. Why would they sell poison nuts at a food store? They should be in a poison store, or a voodoo store! Anyway, I’ll type faster now as I really don’t know how much time left.

Bitter melon, also known as ku kua, foo gwa, karela, balsam pear and bittergourd, is a member of the cucurbitaceae family and looks like cucumber with warts. Yum, warts!

As the name implies, it is bitter, the most bitter of all fruits, and is apparently an acquired taste vegetable. People apparently love it or hate it, so my excitement has been renewed. I like foods that have such strong personal reactions. Bitter melon has been used as a folk remedy in China, India, Africa and other parts of the world.

Before I cut the bitter melon open and start eating it, I decided that perhaps I should learn from my poison gingko mistake and do a little more reading. Ok, here it is. If I eat more than two bitter melons a day (raw or cooked) I may experience explosive diarrhea or stomach cramps. I only bought one, and really who cares, I’ve already been poisoned. Here it goes!

I washed it with my trusty Veggie Wash that naturally gets rid of any coatings and *who knows what* else that may have been on it. I then slowly cut it into raw and warty slices. There is a fleshy white filler that surrounds the big seeds inside. Those can all come out, as it’s just the outside dark green part that I’m after. It’s crispy and tastes like a bitter green pepper. I’m thinking this would be fabulous diced up and lightly stir fried with garlic and salt.
So, yes, sure — if you eat a bunch of these a day you may find that you’re digestively cleaning house. However, check out the health benefits! Bitter gourds are very low in calories but dense with precious nutrients. It is an excellent source of vitamins B1, B2, and B3, C, magnesium, folate, zinc, phosphorus, manganese, and has high dietary fiber. It is rich in iron, contains twice the beta-carotene of broccoli, twice the calcium of spinach, and twice the potassium of a banana. This is a fun one and I’ll experiment more with it.

Until next time — should I survive the poison nut.